I Heart Technology
Technology comes through for us gals again in the form of a site called Don't Date Him Girl!
OMG - this site is a hoot & a holler. Take this description of a Cheater (they display the word "Cheater" above each photo) named Daniel:
We were engaged from 10/04 to 2/05. He told me he was a Psychologist and was divorced from a woman who cheated on him throughout their marriage. He told me he had two kids, and one that his wife had illegitimately while they were married. We had wedding plans pretty much set, and he disappeared. He had moved from Texas to Illinois to be with me (supposedly) and he literally left town like a thief in the night and went back to Texas. With some research, I found out he lied about being a Pschologist- he didn't even finish college. He is basically a glorified orderly at methadone clinics.It's that being "originally" from Iowa part that really tears it, the bastard! Daniel's last name and photo are on the site for your perusal. If he ever read this bio on DDHG, he could write in to defend himself.
He even printed out articles he found on the internet and told me he wrote them. I found out that while we were engaged, he was looking through yahoo personals! He has FIVE children, all his, and he had filed bankruptcy less than a year before we got engaged. He didn't get anything of mine, so I don't know what the scam was. Sadly, he brought his teenage son with him when he moved here, and told me he was being home-schooled, but that was a lie. His son played video games all day and never went to school while they lived here. He had his son in on the lying about how many siblings he had! He had some minor medical problems and I think the loser got himself fired and/or couldn't work so the game was up. He lied to his landlord saying he had a rare form of stomach cancer and had to move back to TX to be with his family to avoid getting sued for breaking his lease. I met him on match.com and he has used yahoo also with names "Prncnmsta" and "Doc". He has horrible grammar and is obsessed with Superman. He's originally from Iowa.
DDHG explains the site's purpose this way:
Each day, thousands of women around the world are cheated on by their boyfriends, fiancés and husbands. A man’s infidelity causes the destruction of thousands of marriages, engagements and relationships every year. What’s a woman to do? Hire expensive private detectives? Pay for costly background checks? Now, women have a new cost-effective weapon in the war on cheating men! Founded by women with women in mind, www.DontDateHimGirl.com is a free service that allows sisters to share their experiences with cheating men by posting pictures and other information about them in an easy-to-use, searchable database.Tasha Cavelle Joseph created the site. I think she is a genius. I wish I was kidding when I tell you that Miss Manners will be the speaker for our graduation this year.
It ought to be Tasha.